The day before he died, my grandfather, William Robert Hay, told my mother from his hospital bed that he had a terrible secret and that he was 10 years older than she thought he was. Mother shrugged the comment off so Grandfather didn't explain himself. After he died mother found a Boer War medal. She had no idea he had been in the Boer War and assumed that this was the terrible secret. Also his birth certificate showed he was 10 years older than she thought he was. We went to the National Archives at Kew but is seems that during World War 2 the Germans bombed the records and all record of my grandfather was lost.
But his medal has given some clue as his part in the Boer War. He was given a QSA (type 3) with 3 bars - Rhodesia, Transvaal and Orange Free State (in that order).
The rim is impressed with: 238 CORP. W. R. HAY RHODn PROCt REGt
I have been reading various sources trying to track his Regiment's movements through the war and trying to avoid jumping to conclusions.
It seems to me , though, that he must have travelled to Cape Town independently and then enlisted there.
I can't help thinking that if he enlisted in Britain he would not have been in the Rhodesian Regiment.